I was staring at the ceiling until morning…

How do you STOP and SLEEP? The energy after a workshop can be a lot…

 

It’s time for another round of FAQ’s (Freakishly Asked Questions, obviously 😜).

A very enthusiastic lady fresh out of Level 1 & 2 sent us this email:

 

“I feel so blessed to have experienced this [workshop]. I feel liberated like never before.

There are some questions floating around in my mind.

1. How do you stop & 2. How do you fall asleep?😅 My energy was just so high that most nights (mornings) I was just laying in bed staring at the ceiling… I could use some tips on this if you have them.

Thanks again for keeping a safe container to explore!”

Great questions! Let’s jump right in:

How do you stop [having tantric s€x]?

We’ll let you know when we figure it out 😜 In all honesty, there’s no clear endpoint when you remove the “goal” from s€x… and we think that’s a good thing!

For many practitioners, a session doesn’t end with a sigh after five minutes, but rather with an “I’ve got work in the morning” after five hours.

Ultimately, it’s up to you when the session stops.

Sometimes you can feel when there’s a natural pause, and other times you just have to redirect yourself because duty’s calling.

In either case, we think longer, more satisfying sessions are a plus.

How do you fall asleep?

We actually have a whole video on this topic already!

Basically, lots of people report that doing this practice gives them a ton of energy they’re not sure what to do with.

In general, we advise that you listen to your body and do what feels right for you. As long as you wake up feeling energetic and functional, there may not be a problem to solve here, but only you can determine that.

In the meantime, you can try putting that energy into other things, like your life purpose, working out, or creative endeavors among other things.

We hope this was helpful!

If you have similar questions, send us an email! Chances are you’re not alone. 😉

 

Watch the FAQ video about sleep here.

Until next time!

Onwards and upwards,

The TNT Team

 

P.S. Curious about The New Tantra?

Want a risk-free taste of our workshops?

Join us for our next Intro Talk!

 

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