Can’t believe I’m asking you this! 🤭 😇

Okay this is a bit random and I don’t mean it in a creepy way, but I’m genuinely curious….

Did you ever make your toys do “naughty things” to each other when you were little?

I’ll admit, I used to undress my Barbie dolls and make them play doctors and nurses with each other when I was younger.

It was completely innocent, but also fun and explorative for me at the time.

Now you might be thinking “eeeh Paris, this is weird. I don’t wanna read about your perverted doll games in my inbox”.

But the reason I’m saying this is because:

If you were (like me) innocently making your dolls play that way, it means you had a natural interest in s*xual play.

And that interest doesn’t disappear when you’re an adult. On the contrary! It matures and develops, becomes more evolved and intricate.

Having an interest in s*x is totally normal and healthy for 99% of people (only about 1% report they’re as*xual).

So then why is your s*xuality burdened by shame, absurd rules, jealousy, pain and tension?

It’s not fair!

Do you think it’s healthy to suppress your natural desire?

Of course, you don’t!

We shouldn’t make it wrong but, sadly, that’s what tends to happen as we grow up.

Why don’t we embrace our desire and make an artform out of it instead? Transcend the outdated patterns and unconscious shame we carry?

The good news is: it’s easier to do something about it than you think! ☺️

When I grew up there was a time when I was completely burdened by s*xual suppression and negative experiences. I used to be a boring little grey mouse!

However, once I did Level 1&2 with The New Tantra, EVERYTHING CHANGED!

And not just s*xually. The tantric practices helped improve many other areas of my life. But frankly that was just a bonus.

Transforming my boring encounters to the best s*x I’ve ever had was so invigorating that I could never imagine stopping my tantric practice. And it’s been almost 15 years for me at this point.

That’s why I’d love for you to embark on this journey yourself.

With my good friend Constantine, we’re leading a TNT Level 1&2 workshop in Berlin 2.-7. October.

Are you ready to take the next step, let go of that shame and reclaim your natural playfulness?

Click here to read about Level 1&2 and sign up!

My friends at TNT and I believe you have the right to a fun and shamefree s*x life without feeling ruled by old patterns and obsolete beliefs.

See you there!

Xx Paris
TNT facilitator

P.S. this is Constantine and me enjoying a German beer and celebrating that the Level 1&2 workshop is only 2 months away! Click this link to join us 2.-7. October in Berlin!

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