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WEIRD way

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50 Misconceptions of Sex
Your comprehensive manual to ecstatic tantric sex
The New Tantra founder Alexa Vartman has skilfully put TNT’s sexual practices down in writing in 50 Misconceptions of Sex.
What readers say:
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- “This is one of the best books on good sex and modern Tantra I have read! I actually had to gobble it up in one sitting!”
- “Almost everyone that has the slightest interest in sex should read it.”
- “Prepare to have your ego delightfully insulted.”
- “I laughed out loud so many times”
Available as ebook, paperback, hardcover & audiobook narrated by Alexa Vartman!
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50 Misconceptions of Sex


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We invite you to explore our offers and resources, and learn more about TNT’s philosophy.
Free Resources
If you want to start practising TNT-style tantric sex right away, sign up for free to:
- the 21 Day Challenge cartoons
- the TNT Fundamentals online course
More free content:
- read the TNT blog
- subscribe to TNT’s Youtube Channel
- follow our Instagram Page.
Subscribe to TNT’s newsletter to receive updates and the latest tantric buzz.
Offers
Online Courses
With TNT’s unapologetic and explicit online video courses, learn to improve your physical sensitivity and explore various forms of tantric sex at home.
The videos feature in-depth explanations of basic and advanced sexual skills instructed by TNT workshop facilitators and bodyworkers. All the skills are illustrated with graphic demonstrations to give you a visual imprint on how to practice at home.
View all TNT online courses.
Workshops
TNT offers an assortment of live trainings. Learn highly effective tantric practices in a relaxed group setting, in the hands of an experienced workshop team.
Typically, you start with Level 1 Sexual Deconditioning. This workshop is “clothes on” and forms an accessible introduction to TNT’s approach. If you successfully complete Level 1, you can move on to Level 2 Advanced Sex, which is TNT’s flagship. Successfully completing Level 2 provides access to most other workshops.
View all workshop descriptions and calendar.
Private sessions
For a hands-on bodily experience in a one-on-one setting, you can choose from a diverse range of private sessions recommended by The New Tantra. The session givers are independent professionals accredited from TNT’s Professional Training.
View all private sessions and search for a session giver in your area.
Shop
Check out TNT founder Alexa Vartman’s book 50 Misconceptions of Sex, and peruse our selection of guided meditations, online course packages and gift cards.
View it all in the shop.
Tantric Networks
Curious to talk to anyone before you try our offers?
Our course participants and extended networks of tantric practitioners tend to be open, sociable and service-minded. They love to connect and inform. Reach out to them on TNT’s public Facebook group.
TNT Mission Statement
TNT aims to develop a modern sexuality that abolishes ego inflation, greediness, disrespect and manipulation. This reminds of the celibacy and abstinence practices that are central to many religious and spiritual paths, but without the guilt, obsession and shame that always come with sexual repression. Such practices go far beyond sexuality and stimulate the development of creativity, flow, connection and purpose throughout life.
About TNT
Learn more about the organisation in these sections:
Before purchasing our products and signing up to a workshop, read our latest FAQ & TNT’s Code of Conduct.
Disclaimer
- TNT trainings and private sessions attract a diverse audience from all walks of life. They are accessible and applicable regardless of sexual orientation, gender, relationship status or previous experience. The trainings are meant to provide consenting, responsible adults with the extraordinary experiences that invite embodied transformation, mental expansion and community building.
- Keep in mind that the practices taught in TNT are an ongoing process and are constantly updated for optimality and relevance.
- TNT trainings, private sessions and practices are not meant as an alternative to “healing”, therapy or medical treatment. The instructors and private session givers are not therapists or doctors. If you suffer from trauma, PTSD, or other physical or psychological issues, please seek help from licensed professionals instead.
- We stress that you as TNT course participant must be responsible for your own safety, health and well-being. You should never feel pressure to do anything that could harm you. Only do what feels comfortable to you. We require a high level of emotional maturity in all participants and expect everyone to respect our safe sex protocols. The New Tantra reserves the right to ban anyone that breaches our code of conduct from our platforms without warning.
- Please note that none of our courses require any belief in the supernatural or religious dogma of any kind.
Free Resources
If you want to start practising TNT-style tantric sex right away, sign up for free to:
- the 21 Day Challenge cartoons
- the TNT Fundamentals online course
More free content:
- read the TNT blog
- subscribe to TNT’s Youtube Channel
- follow our Instagram Page.
Subscribe to TNT’s newsletter to receive updates and the latest tantric buzz.
Offers
Online Courses
With TNT’s unapologetic and explicit online video courses, learn to improve your physical sensitivity and explore various forms of tantric sex at home.
The videos feature in-depth explanations of basic and advanced sexual skills instructed by TNT workshop facilitators and bodyworkers. All the skills are illustrated with graphic demonstrations to give you a visual imprint on how to practice at home.
View all TNT online courses.
Workshops
TNT offers an assortment of live trainings. Learn highly effective tantric practices in a relaxed group setting, in the hands of an experienced workshop team.
Typically, you start with Level 1 Sexual Deconditioning. This workshop is “clothes on” and forms an accessible introduction to TNT’s approach. If you successfully complete Level 1, you can move on to Level 2 Advanced Sex, which is TNT’s flagship. Successfully completing Level 2 provides access to most other workshops.
View all workshop descriptions and calendar.
Private sessions
For a hands-on bodily experience in a one-on-one setting, you can choose from a diverse range of private sessions recommended by The New Tantra. The session givers are independent professionals accredited from TNT’s Professional Training.
View all private sessions and search for a session giver in your area.
Shop
Check out TNT founder Alexa Vartman’s book 50 Misconceptions of Sex, and peruse our selection of guided meditations, online course packages and gift cards.
View it all in the shop.
Tantric Networks
Curious to talk to anyone before you try our offers?
Our course participants and extended networks of tantric practitioners tend to be open, sociable and service-minded. They love to connect and inform. Reach out to them on TNT’s public Facebook group.
TNT Mission Statement
TNT aims to develop a modern sexuality that abolishes ego inflation, greediness, disrespect and manipulation. This reminds of the celibacy and abstinence practices that are central to many religious and spiritual paths, but without the guilt, obsession and shame that always come with sexual repression. Such practices go far beyond sexuality and stimulate the development of creativity, flow, connection and purpose throughout life.
About TNT
Learn more about the organisation in these sections:
Before purchasing our products and signing up to a workshop, read our latest FAQ & TNT’s Code of Conduct.
Disclaimer
- TNT trainings and private sessions attract a diverse audience from all walks of life. They are accessible and applicable regardless of sexual orientation, gender, relationship status or previous experience. The trainings are meant to provide consenting, responsible adults with the extraordinary experiences that invite embodied transformation, mental expansion and community building.
- Keep in mind that the practices taught in TNT are an ongoing process and are constantly updated for optimality and relevance.
- TNT trainings, private sessions and practices are not meant as an alternative to “healing”, therapy or medical treatment. The instructors and private session givers are not therapists or doctors. If you suffer from trauma, PTSD, or other physical or psychological issues, please seek help from licensed professionals instead.
- We stress that you as TNT course participant must be responsible for your own safety, health and well-being. You should never feel pressure to do anything that could harm you. Only do what feels comfortable to you. We require a high level of emotional maturity in all participants and expect everyone to respect our safe sex protocols. The New Tantra reserves the right to ban anyone that breaches our code of conduct from our platforms without warning.
- Please note that none of our courses require any belief in the supernatural or religious dogma of any kind.
Free Resources
If you want to start practising TNT-style tantric sex right away, sign up for free to:
- the 21 Day Challenge cartoons
- the TNT Fundamentals online course
More free content:
- read the TNT blog
- subscribe to TNT’s Youtube Channel
- follow our Instagram Page.
Subscribe to TNT’s newsletter to receive updates and the latest tantric buzz.
Offers
Online Courses
With TNT’s unapologetic and explicit online video courses, learn to improve your physical sensitivity and explore various forms of tantric sex at home.
The videos feature in-depth explanations of basic and advanced sexual skills instructed by TNT workshop facilitators and bodyworkers. All the skills are illustrated with graphic demonstrations to give you a visual imprint on how to practice at home.
View all TNT online courses.
Workshops
TNT offers an assortment of live trainings. Learn highly effective tantric practices in a relaxed group setting, in the hands of an experienced workshop team.
Typically, you start with Level 1 Sexual Deconditioning. This workshop is “clothes on” and forms an accessible introduction to TNT’s approach. If you successfully complete Level 1, you can move on to Level 2 Advanced Sex, which is TNT’s flagship. Successfully completing Level 2 provides access to most other workshops.
View all workshop descriptions and calendar.
Private sessions
For a hands-on bodily experience in a one-on-one setting, you can choose from a diverse range of private sessions recommended by The New Tantra. The session givers are independent professionals accredited from TNT’s Professional Training.
View all private sessions and search for a session giver in your area.
Shop
Check out TNT founder Alexa Vartman’s book 50 Misconceptions of Sex, and peruse our selection of guided meditations, online course packages and gift cards.
View it all in the shop.
Tantric Networks
Curious to talk to anyone before you try our offers?
Our course participants and extended networks of tantric practitioners tend to be open, sociable and service-minded. They love to connect and inform. Reach out to them on TNT’s public Facebook group.
TNT Mission Statement
TNT aims to develop a modern sexuality that abolishes ego inflation, greediness, disrespect and manipulation. This reminds of the celibacy and abstinence practices that are central to many religious and spiritual paths, but without the guilt, obsession and shame that always come with sexual repression. Such practices go far beyond sexuality and stimulate the development of creativity, flow, connection and purpose throughout life.
About TNT
Learn more about the organisation in these sections:
Before purchasing our products and signing up to a workshop, read our latest FAQ & TNT’s Code of Conduct.
Disclaimer
- TNT trainings and private sessions attract a diverse audience from all walks of life. They are accessible and applicable regardless of sexual orientation, gender, relationship status or previous experience. The trainings are meant to provide consenting, responsible adults with the extraordinary experiences that invite embodied transformation, mental expansion and community building.
- Keep in mind that the practices taught in TNT are an ongoing process and are constantly updated for optimality and relevance.
- TNT trainings, private sessions and practices are not meant as an alternative to “healing”, therapy or medical treatment. The instructors and private session givers are not therapists or doctors. If you suffer from trauma, PTSD, or other physical or psychological issues, please seek help from licensed professionals instead.
- We stress that you as TNT course participant must be responsible for your own safety, health and well-being. You should never feel pressure to do anything that could harm you. Only do what feels comfortable to you. We require a high level of emotional maturity in all participants and expect everyone to respect our safe sex protocols. The New Tantra reserves the right to ban anyone that breaches our code of conduct from our platforms without warning.
- Please note that none of our courses require any belief in the supernatural or religious dogma of any kind.