Deeper pleasure with Vaginal De-armouring

Hey, I’m Hotlips from the TNT team ✌️

I worked many years as a bodyworker, and I want to share about a tantric tool for women with you.

Vaginal de-armouring is a transformative practice designed to help release physical and emotional blockages stored in the vagina, opening the door to deeper sensitivity, connection, and pleasure.

Vaginal de-armouring is a process similar to deep tissue massage, where gentle yet firm pressure is applied to areas of tension inside the vagina. This technique helps release stored tension, numbness, and pain, allowing sexual energy to flow freely again.

It’s a unique opportunity to reconnect with your body, move beyond mental overthinking, and experience orgasms that go beyond the short, spasm-based climax most are familiar with.

Emotional release is an essential part of the process tears, laughter, or even frustration may surface. It’s important to allow these emotions to come up without judgment, letting your body guide the process naturally.

My personal experience…
In 2010, I had my first vaginal de-armouring session with a certified TNT bodyworker. I had always assumed there was nothing “wrong” with my pussy, but during the session, I discovered several numb areas I wasn’t even aware of. I realized that years of suppressed emotions had been stored in my body, limiting my sexual pleasure.

Before de-armouring, my sexual experiences mainly revolved around clitoral stimulation, and I had never experienced a G-spot or womb orgasm.

However, after the session, I felt more grounded, and my vaginal sensitivity increased in the most beautiful way. My body felt more open and receptive to pleasure, sparking a journey of sexual exploration beyond what I had imagined.

In my opinion, every woman can benefit from de-armouring, as life experiences whether through stress, emotional trauma, or negative sexual encounters can create tension in the genital area. This can manifest as physical discomfort, numbness, or an inability to fully enjoy sex.

However, it’s important to note:
•    Pregnant women should not attempt self-de-armouring. Instead, seek professional guidance from certified specialists.
•    Women with medical or psychological conditions should consult a healthcare professional before exploring this practice.

De-armouring is an incredible journey of self-discovery. Whether you’re new to this practice or looking to deepen your experience, I invite you to explore the possibilities and reconnect with your body in a profound way.

Ready to unlock your deeper pleasure potential? Here’s how you can explore vaginal de-armouring:

•    At home with a trusted partner: Follow the step-by-step guide in 50 Misconceptions of Sex by TNT founder Alexa Vartman.

•    Through online learning: Our Pussy Skills video course offers a  real demonstration to guide you through the process.

•    With a professional: Booking a private session with a trained bodyworker can provide deeper support and guidance.

•    At a workshop: Join our TNT Level 2 Advanced Sex workshop for a guided group experience with expert facilitators.

I hope this was useful!

Let me know if you have any questions.

With love,
Hotlips & the TNT Team

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