Can’t get horny without visual stimulus or fantasizing?

When you start the 21 Day Challenge of tantric sex, you’re encouraged to regularly masturbate to keep your sexual energy high.

But some people have trouble getting horny without fantasizing or a visual stimulus of some kind. Many also feel desensitized from the actual feelings in their body when they touch themselves.

Does this description fit you? Then this week’s Freakishly Asked Questions video will give you some answers on what to do.

If you have more tantric sex-related questions, you can always drop us a message.

And sign up for the FREE 21 Day Challenge to start your tantra practice at home.

Onwards & Upwards,
The TNT team

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